On The Road with The HB Crew

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We left an entire day earlier than we thought we would and we’re glad for it now. Road tripping with two little ones, no matter how patient everybody is, is an adventure in its own right. We’ve made it closer to our destination and the weather is forecasted to be full of sun and blue skies from here on out! 

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It became apparent as we talked with Maggie more about this trip that she had very high hopes that we were going back to Canada to Harrison Hot Springs. She was devastated to learn that vacation isn’t always going to ‘the little house’ with some of her favorite people. 

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I’m choosing to believe that she has figured out this is a pretty awesome vacation that we’re on, too. My aunt (or was it Grandma that started them?) always gave her kids ‘car presents’ while doing long road trips – wrapping up almost anything and tossing one back to the little ones when the time is right. We’ve started the ‘car presents’ tradition and here is what we have learned: 1. Maggie doesn’t have the stomach to draw in the car. (no puke though!). 2. The more challenging the present is to open, the more rewarding it is. 3. Glow sticks are awesome to use in the car at night. And in the bath tub. Best couple of bucks I could have spent. 
barry (2 of 2)I felt myself getting giddy about this trip months ago and now that it is actually here, I’m still giddy. Our family functions best when we’re all together. Sure, we break off to do different things (runs, book stores, walks…), but we thrive on time together. Being smooshed in the car all together may seem like a nightmare to some, but we’re happy little campers around here. Some of my very favorite memories from my childhood are from trips that my family took – trips that weren’t overly extravagant, but definitely where being together was the sole purpose. (Thanks, Mom & Dad!)

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I have been dreaming about coming back here with Barry for a long time. There’s something about Montana that I absolutely adore. Is it the cowboys? The laid-back, recreational feeling? The mountains? Whatever it is, I’m so thankful to be able to share it with him and our girls. We spent today walking the streets of Missoula and it feels very much like a distant cousin of B’ham, another place I’ve lived and loved.
hannah and audrey (1 of 1)As we were getting out of the car to start our trek, the parking attendant pulled up in her little truck and hopped out to dote on the girls. We ended up talking to her about all the different places that she thought we’d like, which was beyond the scope of the 2 hours we’d paid for parking. She encouraged us to not worry about getting a ticket because, since we’re from out of state, it’d only be a warning. We took her suggestion and by the time we found Bernice’s Bakery for some coffee and a shared cinnamon roll, our two our parking limit had vanished from our thoughts. At the end of the day, when we returned to our car, there wasn’t even the warning. 

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The girls were both so awesome today ~ Audrey took a massive nap in the Ergo as we walked and Maggie stayed close and walked SO far. It wasn’t until we were at a park that she took a spill and she started crying….it was then that we decided to head back to the car. I’d passed Audrey to Barry and was in charge of snuggling/carrying Maggie and she’s heavy. I decided to put her in the Ergo to see how it went and it was awesome! It felt nice to have her close for the walk back to the car, where she busted open a car present and munched on it on the way back to our hotel. 
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Tomorrow is a longer car day for us all and if we played our cards right today, and I think we did, we’ll get off in the morning and both girls will happily nap. Maggie, despite the fact that she has plenty of ‘activities’ to do in the car, turns into quite the chatterbox once we’re moving. There isn’t a favorite topic of conversation, just lots of talking…..

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 Audrey has been the most amazing baby in the entire world. She continues to be relaxed and happy to go with the flow and has literally only cried once, exactly opposite of ‘someone’ that has never been a great car rider. As long as she’s fed, she’s pretty happy. 

And if all else fails, we’ve still got Car Presents!

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The Monday That Felt Like a Saturday

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He took the day off yesterday because he woke up and the sun was shining and he wanted to 

spend time with his family. 

We listened when he said to pack up the car with our beach gear and sunscreen. 

We followed when he took us to Seattle for the morning and the Marina Beach in the afternoon. 

We laughed when he acted like his toes were too far buried in the sand. 

I swooned when he traced the edge of the ocean walking down the beach holding our baby girl. 

We said our thanks that he is ours.  

To me, nothing is better than spending time

together.

Family is everything. 

Follow the Yellow Brick Road

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Without fail we fail, we in love with our house every single Spring. Give us an opportunity to bust open the windows and eat outside and we’re having a love-fest with it. I don’t desire to have a larger house, but after the long months of Winter, and we can finally fling open the doors, our house suddenly feels like we built on an expansion. I love our yard and the freedom that it gives us. 

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Being here, in the good old PNW, is super easy when the weather is nice, but this year we have a bit more of an itch to get out and do something. I told my mom that Barry and I had the ‘come to Jesus conversation’ about our plans and she laughed, but I think she also understood it. With me being pregnant/working and then having a newborn, we were in a holding pattern with not much else on the horizon – we didn’t know what to expect with Audrey and so our schedule was utterly cleared. 
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Now that Audrey is here, and she is almost 4 months old, we’re getting a bit of an itch to move beyond our little pod. We’ve got a some smaller trips planned here and there, but we sat down and looked at the BIG PICTURE. Barry and I are both nerds when it comes to plans, almost to a fault.  Inevitably, we’ll make a goal (personal, family, financial, professional…) and then when the time comes to pull the trigger or complete the final stage, we adjust the goal so it is just a bit more out of our reach.    

 

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Yesterday when we started talking about our goals, our conversation stretched late into the night because we both totally geeked out talking about what we’re doing and where we’re headed. I tend not to be a huge risk taker, but I also love the idea of a good adventure and I want our girls to know more than just the town we live in and the day-to-day lives we lead. So, we chicken-scratched together a little list of things that we want to do with our Little Chickens. Things that are important to us and will hopefully be important to them. barry & audrey

I’m not entirely sure what all this means because, as Barry said last night, we weren’t really sure what life was going to be like with two kids. Turns out, things with two kids is super awesome and we’re ready to get movin’ and a shakin’! For now, while we continue to have our conversations about our chicken-scratched list, we’ll enjoy what we’ve got. 
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The Sandy Lagoon (which, funnily enough, has never had sand in it) has been pulled out of the shed and scrubbed down, we’ve got our outside blanket/gear folded and ready to spread out, and the weather looks friendly enough these next coming days. We also have the makings for S’Mores on the off chance that we’ll muster up enough energy in the evening to have some more fires to roast ‘mallows. If I’m being honest, we’re all ready for bed time on the days that we’ve been outside most of the time….

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And when the weather changes, and it will, we’ll be ready with some indoor activities and our chicken-scratch list to geek-out over. 

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