Why Don’t We Live in Montana?

Ahhh….time flies when you’re on the road. We landed at the fabulousChico Hot Springs yesterday and tonight we’re holed up in a dive hotel just on on the border of Montana and North Dakota. The two places couldn’t be more different, but the best part about it is that when all 11 of us are together we have a great time. That much was apparent tonight when we discovered, after a long day of driving, that we’ve got no hot water and rusty water coming from the faucets.  At least we’ll be on the road again tomorrow again.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The last few days have been oh so full of memories and beautiful, beautiful rolling green hills. More than once I’ve wondered why we don’t live in Montana and I’ve wished that Sydney and Barry were along for this wild ride. Aside from the mosquitos and creepy prairie dogs, I think I’ve fallen in love with this state. We wandered around Livingston, a small cowboy town near Chico, and it just felt like small town America through and through.

But the heart of this trip so far, aside from it being my grandparent’s 60th wedding celebration, was the time spent at Chico Hot Springs. Between soaking in the pools and eating an intimate dinner together, memories were made that I know will spur future trips back to the special waters, and we’ll bring more of our tribe to share in the goodness.

Rumor has it that as my grandpa gets closer to his place of birth, Devils Lake, he starts humming and singing tunes related to the tiny farm town or songs of his childhood. Our car, however, has been blasting Waylon Jennings, The Dixie Chicks, a bit of John Legend, and  everything else in between.  My mom, Chach and I have become very suave at distracting Maggie….not sure I want to jinx our luck, so I’ll stop there. We’ve been taking guesses about who will be the first person to be left behind, but with all the fuss-budgeting that happens, I don’t think it will actually happen. For the record, Izak has won by a landslide and we’ve still got him with us last time I checked.

Tomorrow we’ll cross over into North Dakota and I don’t expect the landscape to change the instant we make the transition, but the idea that I’m headed back to the place that my grandparents and dad spent so many years and summers growing up excites me immensely. I would say back to the motherland, but in this case I think it might be more appropriate to say fatherland. As the hours tick by and the scenery scrolls by outside my car window, I find myself thinking about how the desire to travel the world and explore lives inside me, but I always forget about the United States and the diversity it offers.

I suppose tonight as some of us fall asleep cold and shivering from freezing showers and others still dreaming of the warm waters of Chico, we can think of these little slices of American Life to take with us on the road because who knows where we’ll land tomorrow. All I know is that we’ll all be together laughing along the way….because there isn’t much else to do with this crew.

P.S. We’ve still got Izak. Phew. He just came to inform me that their water doesn’t work either.

Better Keep Your Eyes on the Road Ahead

Maggie and I packed our bags yesterday and hit the road along with my mom, leaving Barry and Sydney behind to hold down HBHQ until we return. With North Dakota in our sights, we’ve already made it to Missoula, Montana without much of an issue. We’ve literally got a bag of tricks packed to distract Maggie and so far she seems most content flipping the pages of her books and playing games with my mom . My mom is the MASTER baby wrangler and Maggie adores her, so it has worked out perfectly so far.

Tonight Chach, Cora, Sue and my grandparents are catching up with us and by tomorrow morning we will have collected Izak, Phil and my dad to complete our traveling troop.  With a stop to soak in some hot wada tomorrow, I think we’ll be ready to join ranks of our North Dakota contingent.

The purpose of this trip is to celebrate my grandparent’s 60th wedding anniversary and we’re headed back to Devils Lake, where both of them grew up. The last time I made this trip I was 9 and I mostly remember getting sick and the Lewis and Clark Caverns. ( I didn’t get sick at the caverns, but I think I rocked my blue neon spandex outfit there, which is a different kind of sick.) I also remember that we used Walkie Talkies to talk between the two cars.

Now we’ve got cell phones to connect the dots between our vehicles and Google hardly lets us get lost. Admittedly, so far we’ve been relying on paper maps to guide our passage and stopping when it feels right or the gas ticker tells us to. Maggie is in the midst of cutting some molars and at about midnight last night I was tempted to strap Maggie back into her bathing suit and take her swimming again because she was a huge bucket of fuss.

Tonight is already looking to be much, much better with a bit of thai food and a leftover yogurt from the free breakfast bar, we’re again ready to dunk in the swimming pool before going night-night.

Maggie is wandering around the room right now, naked,  holding the remote up to her ear having a conversation with somebody, probably calling Papa and Sydney. Her vocabulary has increased –  new word(s) each day. More on that later, but her favorite word is ‘hot’. Apparently we use it a lot in regards to what we’re eating and the weather and she is a little parrot.

So, more to come from our 4 generation road trip tomorrow!!

 

We’re All Posers

I’ve tried to make it a goal to get pictures of our little family every month since Maggie was born and it has become a fun challenge to find a moment where we don’t look too much like wild, disheveled misfits.  Looking at the following collection of pictures two things seem to be apparent: 1. We obviously have a “pose” that we use and I like to stand to Barry’s left more often than not. 2.  Only one picture of us was taken inside.

I thought that I’d only try to do this for Maggie’s first year, but, like her chair portraits, I’ve decided to continue to force these posed pictures. Sometimes it can be a bit awkward asking somebody to maneuver my camera, but I am so thankful that I’ve got this collection of pictures. And for the record, we totally look like wild, disheveled misfits sometimes….and I’m fine with that.